If you want to be thoroughly dissatisfied with your life, you can do it quickly in one easy step:
Compare yourself to others.
There will always be someone who is more successful or talented or good-looking or clever or confident or has more of whatever it is you want. Guaranteed. You might measure up pretty well against some people (as long as you’re careful to measure the right things), but eventually you’re bound to find someone who surpasses you at the very strengths you take pride in. The world is a big place. That’s how it goes.Continue reading How To Quit The Comparison Game